"I thank Barbra for always being an inspiration!! I have taken many workshops with Barbra these past years. I have grown so much during this intensely challenging time. I am truly more compassionate, more balanced, more kind and loving. Barbra is a major influence in my life. DO THE WORK!" ~LS
GRETCHEN & MELISSA: THE PATH TO RECONNECTION
THIS SPECIAL PRESENTATION IS NOW AVAILABLE "That was absolutely brilliant. Barbra. We both learned a lot. Your questions were so well chosen and compassionate.
Thank you hugely as always."
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PEOPLE, PATTERNS + POSSIBILITIES
Four Types of People (and a Fifth!)
The role of survival strategies
How patterns shape the way we handle conflict
Navigate life circumstances with clarity and resilience
Move from disconnection to connection
Purchase Recording + Selected Handouts $25
PERSONAL EMPOWERMENT WITH SCRIPTS
SCRIPTS: A powerful tool for navigating difficult conversations and situations with competence, confidence and clarity. Specific strategies. An info-packed presentation.
RECORDING NOW AVAILABLE! $25
BEYOND THE MOTHER WOUND
NEEDS: What are the emotional, physical, and psychological requirements of our formative years?
What's an Original Wound?
Where do "wounds" come from?
How do they show up in our life today?
Strategies for moving forward
Recording now available for purchase... $25
ACCEPTANCE AND LETTING GO HOW DO I DO THAT!
A brand new look at ACCEPTANCE and LETTING GO!
Partially based on the groundbreaking work
of Michael A Singer, "The Untethered Soul."
RECORDING NOW AVAILABLE! $25
COMMUNICATION AND THE ART OF VALIDATION
Lack of effective communication skills is the #1 cause of conflicts and misunderstandings in relationships.
Many disputes stem not from the issues,
but from how we talk about them.
Discover Barbra's 3 most important rules for communication.
Understand the "ART OF VALIDATION"
RECORDING NOW AVAILABLE! $25
BILL OF RIGHTS FOR ESTRANGED PARENTS / GRANDPARENTS
THE RECORDING FOR THIS GROUNDBREAKING WEBINAR IS NOW AVAILABLE!
GRANDPARENTS: A Guide for Navigating Estrangement
Our Unique Grief
Changes in values, family structures, and cultural norms
Differences in knowledge and resources available
“Conflict - scenarios"
Strategies for maintaining relationships and avoiding conflicts
Boundaries
NEW RULES For Grandparents
PURCHASE THE WEBINAR RECORDING
AND PDF HANDOUTS $25
INTRO TO ChatGPT for Estranged Parents / Grandparents
WHAT it is, HOW it works, WHY YOU need to know it!
- Tool for communication strategies
- Trends in parenting and education
- Tools for emotional regulation and empathy development
- DEMONSTRATIONS and MORE!
Prompts for learning scenarios
RECORDING, SLIDES, PROMPTS AND CONVERATIONS NOW AVAILABLE FOR PURCHASE!
ACCEPTANCE AND LETTING GO HOW DO I DO THAT!
A brand new look at ACCEPTANCE and LETTING GO!
Partially based on the groundbreaking work
of Michael A Singer, "The Untethered Soul."
RECORDING NOW AVAILABLE! $25
COMMUNICATION AND THE ART OF VALIDATION
Lack of effective communication skills is the #1 cause of conflicts and misunderstandings in relationships.
Many disputes stem not from the issues,
but from how we talk about them.
Discover Barbra's 3 most important rules for communication.
Understand the "ART OF VALIDATION"
RECORDING NOW AVAILABLE! $25
BILL OF RIGHTS FOR ESTRANGED PARENTS / GRANDPARENTS
THE RECORDING FOR THIS GROUNDBREAKING WEBINAR IS NOW AVAILABLE!
GRANDPARENTS: A Guide for Navigating Estrangement
Our Unique Grief
Changes in values, family structures, and cultural norms
Differences in knowledge and resources available
“Conflict - scenarios"
Strategies for maintaining relationships and avoiding conflicts
Boundaries
NEW RULES For Grandparents
PURCHASE THE WEBINAR RECORDING
AND PDF HANDOUTS $25
INTRO TO ChatGPT for Estranged Parents / Grandparents
WHAT it is, HOW it works, WHY YOU need to know it!
- Tool for communication strategies
- Trends in parenting and education
- Tools for emotional regulation and empathy development
- DEMONSTRATIONS and MORE!
Prompts for learning scenarios
RECORDING, SLIDES, PROMPTS AND CONVERATIONS NOW AVAILABLE FOR PURCHASE!
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE, PERSPECTIVE + VALIDATION
EMOTIONS, TRIGGERS, AND WHAT'S UNDERNEATH
THE FIVE PILLARS OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
UNDERSTANDING PERSPECTIVE
VALIDATION: "I see you, I hear you, I understand you"
Recording now available for purchase $25
WRITING YOUR NOTE OF RECONCILIATION
LEARN AND GO THROUGH THE PROCESS OUTLINED IN THE "HOW TO WRITE A NOTE OF RECONCILIATION" WEBINAR. SEND ME YOUR DRAFT. 75 MINUTE COACHING SESSION TO EDIT AND REVIEW!
WHAT TO DO WHILE LIVING WITH THE PAIN OF ESTRANGEMENT
A 3 Part Workshop Offering Essential Skills
for more wisely navigating the circumstances of our life.
PURCHASE THE RECORDINGS OF EACH WORKSHOP SESSION PLUS PDF HANDOUTS
HOW TO WRITE A NOTE OF RECONCILIATION
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AND PDF HANDOUTS $25
PERSONAL NARRATIVES: REWRITING HISTORY OR KERNEL OF TRUTH!
- Barbra’s Introduction
- Definition: What’s a Personal Narrative?When / How are they formed?How do they shape our identity / world view?
- TRUTH in Personal Narratives
- Different narratives in families
- Parental Perspectives / Adult Children Perspectives
- Core Beliefs/How hey are formed
- The Art of Reconciliation
- Actionable Take-a-ways and Strategies
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AND PDF HANDOUTS $25
THE 3 6 9 METHOD!
Inventor Nikola Tesla thought in terms of energy, frequency and vibration.
Now there is a powerful math-based practice to help shift negative thoughts into more optimistic ways of thinking.
WHY NOT TRY SOMETHING NEW?
AN EXPERIENTIAL LEARNING SESSION INCLUDES:
Guided Workbook
Brain - backed information
A simple process
PURCHASE THE WEBINAR RECORDING + GUIDED WORKBOOK $25
AN INTRODUCTION TO THE ALPHABET THERAPIES!
CBT: Skills for identifying and changing destructive or disturbing thought patterns
DBT: Skills in distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness, and emotional regulation.
ACT: Skills for acceptance and a commitment to VALUES to drive your life.
EQ: Skills for understanding, using, and managing emotions for effective communication, empathy for others, and defusing conflict.
PURCHASE THE SERIES OF 4: $149 (recordings + PDF's)
EMAIL for Individual webinars: Barbra@barbradrizin.com
COMMUNICATION ESSENTIALS
NVC BASICS AND SO MUCH MORE!
Judgment / Observations / Feelings / Needs / Strategies!
Smart, Effective, Efficient Empathetic Communication
Tools to use right away!
$25
MENTAL REHEARSAL: TAP INTO THE POWER
EVER FIND YOURSELF STUMBLING WHEN TRIGGERED, UNABLE TO RETRIEVE THE BEST RESPONSES YOU REALLY MEAN TO SAY?
Conversations can take a sudden, or difficult turn.
We find ourselves in stress-provoking or people-provoking situations. We may feel intimidated, surprised, perplexed, or overwhelmed. We stumble over our words, or we react in anger and frustration. Later, we often regret that we didn't say what we meant to say.
We think of what we would have, could have, should have said, but failed to say in the moment.
MENTAL REHEARSAL.
-IMAGINING, VISUALIZING, PRACTICING IN ADVANCE.
-TOOLS to calm ourselves.
-WORDS to say.
-EQUIPPED to respond constructively and effectively.
$25
2022 Q & A PLUS...Get the recording!
The October 12, 2022 Q & A was an EXCEPTIONAL learning opportunity! You wrote:
"I can't thank you enough for your most informative, passionate, compassionate, inspiring presentation...I thank you again for all you do to heal broken hearts.."
"I continue to be impressed with the quality of your work. Your lectures are concise and to the point; you address the topics head-on. Your visual presentation is so tremendously helpful and thoughtful, not to mention pretty! And well laid-out."
"Impactful : My family wants to label my son as "emotionally immature", but I now understand, he is not in his reflective years. My hope is one day he will become reflective."
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ME IN '23
*"Thank you for a wonderful gift, What a truly great way to welcome in the new year! The best presentation you have ever done! Bravisima!""
*"Thank you for the session yesterday. I got so much out of it and appreciate your time."
*"Listening to you and being present with the other participants is exactly what I needed as this new year approaches."
*"Thank you for encouraging all of us to write and intentionally commit ourselves to a path of living."
COMING SOON - A repeat of this workshop!
BRAIN TRAINING! 30 BITE-SIZED LESSONS + EXERCISES!
- WHY LEARN ABOUT THE BRAIN?
- A SIMPLE INTRO TO THE BRAIN
- OUR UNCONSCIOUS MIND
- NEUROPLASTICITY...how to use it to change your brain
- SELF CARE TO REPLENISH OUR BRAIN
- REWIRING OUR BRAIN
- NEUROTRANSMITTERS
- SELF-FORGIVENESS TO FREE YOUR MIND
- EXERCISES TO PRACTICE DAILY
- ANCHORING YOUR BEST SELF WITH NLP
- AND MUCH MUCH MORE!
JOIN AT ANY TIME!
Access the lessons at your convenience in our
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Be supported, encouraged and motivated in our learning community! $59
JACKALS AND GIRAFFES: PART ONE
"WORDS ARE WINDOWS...OR THEY'RE WALLS"
The words we say can separate us...or connect us.
- What is communication?
- What are feelings?
- What are needs?
- What are judgments?
- What are observations?
- What are validation statements?
- How do we choose strategies to meet our needs?
- How do we request what we want?
- How can we influence?
JACKALS AND GIRAFFES PART TWO
PART TWO
- Review: judgments, observations, feelings and needs
- The Five Communication Types of the Five Chairs
- Validation / Active Listening / Reflective Listening
- What is Empathy?
- Perspectives + Narratives
- Strategies and Requests
- The "DANCE" of Connection
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE AN ADULT?
"Why can't he/she just act like an adult?"
But, what does it mean to be an adult?
To be 18 and able to go to war?
To be 21 and be able to drink?
Do we consistently act like "ADULTS?"
How do we step-up to be the adult in the room?
Presentation + PDF's $25
"DR. GABOR MATE'S FIVE LEVELS OF COMPASSION" + "BEING AWAKE"
Dr. Gabor Mate is a renowned expert, speaker and author on mind/body health. Barbra presents his Five Levels of Compassion along with the topic "Being Awake." Wed, Jan 19, 4:30 pm pacific. All registrants receive a recording.
GROWTH MINDSET---HOW TO GET ONE!
YOU WILL LEARN
- What's a Growth Mindset?
- Myths About Growth Mindsets
- Strengths You Develop When Taking On A Challenge
- Attacking Faulty Thinking
- Building Resilience
- Creating A Growth Mindset Action Plan
RECORDING + PDF'S ARE NOW AVAILABLE FOR PURCHASE. $10
BEYOND...
The December holiday season confronts us. It is the time, more than ever, when we are faced with "what was," and "what may be missing from our life."
Our thoughts are filled with reflecting upon the sometimes smooth and often rocky days of our life.
We yearn for the only thing we know is important:
LOVE AND CONNECTION.
Will there be time to heal what may be unsettled?
- WHAT LIES BEYOND?
- HOW DO WE PLAN FOR IT?
- HOW DO WE GET THROUGH DAYS THAT MAY SEEM EMPTY? WHAT DO WE FILL THEM WITH?
This webinar is completed.
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